My friend told me... "It's not your fault you fell for the wrong person..."

But... who's the right person? If we do find the right person... and it didn't work out again... and things went really bad... he would still turn out to be the wrong person? How will you ever know? When will you ever know?

And who are we to judge... who's right and who's wrong?

Can we actually say we are, too, or YOU are... or I'M the right person? For this person?

Maybe what we really meant is that... when we say... "DAMN... but he's soo right for me..." that it felt right... it feels right when you're with him every time... for a time you felt you were compatible... but not for long.

What do we mean when we're looking for Mr. Right? Right face? Right nose? Right attitude? At the right time?

I think we're actually looking for Mr. Perfect. I think... even if we do find a person... who's really kind, generous, mature, rational, etc... thinking maybe this time you found Mr. Right or Mr. Perfect... at one time or another... you will see that there would still be something wrong with him or her...

We'll just have to accept the fact, too, that things aren't always certain (as I always say to my friends) and that things don't always turn out the way we want them to be. We will never find Mr. Right... or Ms. Right...

Coz he or she... will at one time be Mr. Wrong... or Ms. Wrong...

Maybe it's just up to us how we handle THEM and/or how we handle the problem they bring or give to us... the RIGHT way.